User29, MetalForever, thanks for the messages.
I have uninstalled the V3 Alpha and tried the beta20120722 and that seems stable. Though I seem to loose a pregnancy if i fiddle with the pregnancy settings in the MOM. Ah well.
MetalForever, thanks again, I am not sure if the 20120722beta is better than the 20120819beta but it seems to work.
User29, thanks for confirming that for me. I wasnt sure if I had missed any support mods and it was flickering due to that. I do remember when i managed to get my character pregnant using the alpha, everything went haywire when she gave birth (after 14 hours for some reason). Will remember to wait for a stable alpha ;)